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How to Play in the Dark: An October Retreat
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How to Play in the Dark: An October Retreat

Join us October 22-26 in Ojai, California!

I’m excited to be co-facilitating a retreat in Ojai, California in 3 weeks, from October 22-26! We still have space for a couple of people to join us, and we’d love to have you if you’re feeling called. It’s called How to Play in the Dark - a co-creative, emergent retreat for women(+) visionaries, leaders, and creators.

Tune into this episode to learn more about How to Play in the Dark, straight from the voices of the retreat’s hosts and facilitators. I chat with visionary founder and architect of play Meg Koenig, along with co-facilitators Courtney Smith, a circle weaver and transformational guide, and Heather Riley, a therapist, movement facilitator and experience designer. In addition to their space-holding and guidance during the retreat, I will be offering human design readings and somatic support, and Jessie Solon will be bringing in daily sound healing experiences.

Come get in touch with your powerful and playful sides during this dark time of year at our farmhouse retreat in Ojai!

All about the Retreat:

(from Meg’s Substack)

There comes a time every year when we are called not into more light, but into the dark. Not the dark of fear or hiding—but the dark of mystery, depth, and fertile ground.

How to Play in the Dark is an invitation into that space, aligned with the season of darkness and inward exploration.

From October 22–26, 2025, we’ll gather in Ojai, California for a co-creative retreat where shadow meets play, and where leadership is reimagined as something shared, reciprocal, and alive.

Themes We’ll Explore

  • Belonging + Wounding

  • Descent + Power

  • Play as Medicine

  • Deconstructing Leadership

The Experience

This is not a top-down “luxury escape.” This is a living, breathing container of healing, remembrance, and co-creation.

Together we will share meals, clean up dishes, tend to space, hold one another through shadow, and create moments of wild play. Every gesture—mundane or magical—is part of the medicine.

Guides + Weavers:

  • Courtney Smith — Transformational Guide + Circle Weaver (word of mouth only)

  • Heather Riley — Visual + Movement Facilitator + Therapist (Visualizing Potential)

  • Alison Dale — Human Design + Somatic Alchemist

  • Jessie Solon — Sound Frequency Guide

  • Meg Koenig — Architect of Play, Presence + Nourishment

This is not a retreat you consume. It is a retreat you co-create.

Shared Participation Looks Like

  • Meals: rotating sign-ups for prep + cleanup

  • Tending the Space: keeping our home cozy + cared for

  • Personal Responsibility: water, rest, journaling, self-regulation

  • Community Care: presence + support for the collective container

  • Playful Contribution: creativity, humor, willingness to process + co-create joy

By dissolving hierarchy, we restore balance. By practicing communal responsibility, we remember what it means to be in true community.

aerial photography of green field at daytime
Photo of Ojai by Brandon DesJarlais

Investment

  • Early Bird: $3,333 (through Sept 22, 2025)

  • Standard: $3,888 (after Sept 22, 2025)

Your investment includes:
✔ 4 nights in community space in Ojai
✔ Organic, locally-prepared meals
✔ Daily practices in shadow play, movement, sound + hypnosis
✔ Playful + nourishing surprises
✔ Pre + post retreat integration calls (with Human Design + Astrology)
✔ A visionary circle of women(+) walking this path together

Deposit: $1,500 (non-refundable) secures your spot once accepted.
Limited to 8 participants.

Application Process

Because this is an intimate, emergent space, all participants must complete an application.

Applications ensure the group is aligned in intention and readiness.
Once your application is approved, you’ll be invited into the container.

Apply Here

A Note on Deconstructing Leadership

Through play, deep presence, embodied experiential learning, and deep dive practices, we’ll reimagine what leadership means.

This is leadership as reciprocity.
Leadership as shared responsibility.
Leadership as remembering how to play—together.

Logistics at a Glance

📍 Where: Ojai, California
📅 When: October 22–26, 2025
💫 Who: Facilitated by Meg Koenig, Heather Riley, Courtney Smith, Alison Dale (Astro Somatic Guide), and Jessie Solon (Sound Frequency).

Spaces are intentionally limited—this retreat is designed to be intimate, immersive, and transformative.

Retreat Referral Program

Community is at the heart of this retreat. If you know someone who’s meant to be here, invite them.

If they apply and attend, you receive $100 as a thank-you.
No cap. No limit. Just community weaving itself together.

Are You Ready to Step Into the Dark?

This is a call for those ready to enter the mystery with courage, curiosity, and play.

✨ If your body lit up reading this, consider it your invitation. If not please pass this on and possibly get a little cash for your pocket!

Thanks for being here! Feel free to comment or dm me with any questions you have about this offering ♥️

Stay in touch!

Website: Book Astrology and Human Design readings with me at astrosomatics.com.⁠⁠⁠

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